tips for her senior session

So you are graduating! You want a stunning senior session, but you aren’t quite sure how to prepare. Here are 5 simple ways to get the images you want …


webmym_0292ch1) Bring clothing you love and feel confident wearing …
and bring multiple outfits for variety.

Photographers used to tell clients to wear “solids” or classic styles that don’t change,
but I disagree!

Wear the things that scream: YOU!
Wearing trends and styles you love will help tell the story of you, right now … in the year you graduated and took on the world.

(Don’t be afraid to add a fun pop with the details. We can get stunning and we can get sassy all in the same session)



winstamym_03582) Play around with hairstyles before the session, but sometimes your confident best is a hairstyle you do everyday. There are no rules, just do what makes you feel pretty and bold.

Some girls like to schedule a hair appointment the morning of their session to be sure to get the desired look, but try not to get a wild new cut too close to your session date.

Depending on the style of your session, you may even plan for hair pieces and accessories to complete the overall feel of the image.





wgmym_0202c3) Simple “props” that describe you can personalize a session.

This senior loved sunflowers, and she brought a bunch to the shoot. Other sessions I have done included salon tools for a senior who was going into cosmetology, a family pet for a senior who was pursuing a career as a veterinarian assistant, a guitar for a senior who loved music, and a college t-shirt to show where the senior was headed.

Almost anything goes! What tells the story of you?




4) Hats, watches, and jewelry are great ways to give your images variety.

Paying attention to the details gives a finished look that makes a big difference in your gallery. Be sure to do your nails (either no polish at all or a fresh manicure), and take those elastic hair ties off your wrists before the session!

It’s the little things.



5) Believe it or not, beauty sleep is not a myth! Try to get a full night of sleep the night before your session.

Trust me; your eyes will look brighter and happier when you are well rested.




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bees & behind the scenes

Instagram vs. Real Life


Can we talk real life please? Yes. Me. The photographer who knows how to make four droopy rows of tired sunflowers look like fields of gold grown just for the illusion of instagram. I know every girl, young and old, wants a sunflower session with handfuls of heart-shaped sunflare and blue skies draped over perfect smiles and sun-kissed cheeks.

I know how to make that happen, but I also know the reality of creating those images …


So, let’s break it down. Here’s the dirty little details…

Take a deep breath. There were bees. LOTS OF BEES! We had to get up close and personal with bees on our hair and bees on our clothes and bees dive-bombing our FACES. Yes, fuzzy little legs TOUCHED MY FACE.

Here is the proof. Take this cute, little guy and multiply him by the number of sunflowers you see, because well that’s what they were there to do and no instagram mission was going to make them stand down.

If you are still with me, the next challenge we had was the very small patch of actual sunflowers. While this next image may look like miles and miles of sunflower bliss.
It. was. not.


Here’s where the photo magic starts and ends. This was actually a couple of rows of sunflowers in front of CORN FIELDS. Your eye doesn’t really detect where the flowers end and the corn begins, but gold is gold I guess. Instagram illusion win!

Ready for another reality smack? The few rows of sunflowers take a bit of editing to look insta-worthy. Here’s what we were really dealing with. Close-ups and blurred backgrounds were our friend! (notice how I am not watermarking this next photo?! ugly. just ugly!)


There was only one direction I could take these photos. The other direction? Wellllllll, if you look closely back there we have a gazillion cows, and while I’m hoping it’s a humane dairy farm with fairies and unicorns, I’m just not really certain what they are actually waiting for?? So not cool when you are photographing cute vegetarian teen girls who are horrified at the possibilities of that background. Eh-hem, moving on. (or mooooo-ving on?)

Next challenge: PEOPLE. Everywhere, people and more people. Other photographers, kids, parents, all running around a narrow row of flowers and trying to stay out of each other’s selfies but just looking like floating heads in a sunlit crop … kinda sounds like a movie. So PHOTOSHOP away dear photographer! Or just shout, “spin-move!” and attempt to block out most of the creepers back there, because I like sleep more than I like my editing software in the still of the night.


So, why do it?
Why try to make the impossible possible?
Why fight the hassle and edit until your computer wants to crash?

Good questions.
Because this girl will only be 15-years-old once, and a sunflower session with her bestie is something that builds a memory. A sunflower patch is not for the faint of heart nor does it work for most clients, but we will never forget
snuggling with bees,
worrying about cows,
or finding those insta-perfect poses …
with giggles and warm sunshine on our faces.

That’s the true, real life magic of a camera:
it keeps this memory forever in my heart.


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Father’s Day


This may be my favorite “Picture in Fathering” of all time,
because encouragement in defeat
is just as valuable
as praise in victory.

With time, the failure or the accomplishment fades away,
but the way your dad spoke into your life remains forever.

So, to all the father’s out there who are present
to pick them up and put them on your shoulders
in both the hard times and the good times,
Happy Father’s Day.

These moments are truly the trophies of life.


the light of love just shines


I love photographing true emotion and magical moments.
That is why some of my favorite photographer moments so far
have been at weddings.

The air is always electric.
There is no need to pose or prompt;
the light of love just shines on its own.

It is easy to get breathtaking shots when the moments are truly breathtaking.

It’s the excitement of anticipation




the pride in the preparation


the tenderness of togetherness


the promise of a new beginningadsc_6273
and the joy of celebration



that all create our most loved and most cherished memories.


Colette is a portrait and event photographer in the Greater Phoenix area.
To see more of her photographic art, please visit her website.




growing with a photographer

I want to show you what growing with a photographer looks like.

The parents of these adorable twins treasure photographs so much they have flown me across the country to take the girls’ annual pictures. I have followed these cutie pies
from Arizona
to Florida
to Massachusetts
and I just did their 5-yr-old session last month back in the AZ desert.


Lots of giggles with these ones:


Since this family has had the opportunity to live all over the United States, it has been so incredibly special to photograph the girls in each unique place they have called home. Last year we were in Boston, MA. The trees and sunlight were just perfect (but a bit chilly for this desert dweller!)


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The year before Boston, I found these girls on the beach in Florida. It was a windy day (like hurricane level warnings up the shoreline!), but I always find it amazing how personalities and beauty shine in any environment.



Look how their mom has purchased and painted a number for the girls to hold every year. It is such a cute way to chronicle the years flying by …

For their second birthday, we found a little grove. Even in the winter, a wooded grove seems magical, and I got to chase these little Fairy Princesses around to capture those sweet little giggles.

Their one-year-old session was the most challenging, because they were on the move!
We had to settle for individual pictures that year.


And then the baby sessions! We opted to do most of these sessions indoors for obvious reasons. A basket was an easy way to wrangle these two cuties!


always angels, even from the beginning …w477972_364986610221159_335170442_o


Colette is portrait and event photographer in the Greater Phoenix area,
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I don’t know about you, but I am the kind of person who
gets excited about a project,
drinks 12 gallons of coffee,
and goes 3 days straight without eating or sleeping
until I smile at my completed product.
(OK, maybe not that extreme, but close)

This is all fine for a starving-artist-kind-of-lifestyle …
not so much for a mother of two.
Keeping the children alive during my intense wild eyed stretches of motivation
is probably pretty important.

As creatively fun as it is, I am beginning to see how this “all or nothing” approach to life really does add to my overall stress. While I am proud of many of my accomplishments, I am not proud of all my stashed piles of neglect,
both the physical piles
and the emotional piles.
They are just ugly and suffocating, and they rob me of my peace.

I recently read a thought provoking book about being effectively present in a very busy, noisy life (How to be Here by Rob Bell). The chapter about RHYTHMS really caught my attention. Finding our daily rhythms and the practice of intentional rhythms are so important in our overall emotional health.

Admittedly, I am not naturally a person of rhythm.
I don’t (can’t?) dance.
I can’t even clap on beat at concerts.
The metronome was my best friend during many years of piano lessons.
I am definitely NOT an exercise addict,
and honestly people who “need” to be in the gym everyday confuse me.
And I certainly don’t have the personality that finds satisfaction in daily chores.
So, the thought of living by intentional rhythms is intriguing to me.

You know what is changing my view about the need for rhythms?
This wild girl:

In March of 2016, we got a puppy.
A really wild one.
No, a REEEEEALLY wild one.
She needs a walk every single day.
I don’t do much every. single. day.
but this year, I have found a rhythm, not by choice or intention but by sheer necessity.

We walk.

Strangely, I have begun to find this rhythm soothing.
I don’t bring my phone.
It is just 20 minutes.
We just walk, and breath, and listen, and just be.
Every day.

In this crazy, demanding, stressful life, we need more rhythms that allow us to
just be. I’m pretty sure this is why God rested on the 7th day.
He knew how much we needed the weekly rhythm of rest.
A place to just be
is so powerful
and it strengthens us
in ways nothing else does.

Deeply strengthens us.

What rhythms are you planning to enjoy this year?

Colette is a portrait and event photographer in Arizona.
To see her photographic art, please visit her website:

playing between the shots

This is one of the photo sessions I look forward to every year!
I love the laughter and joy this amazing family finds in just being together. Anyone who knows them, would agree … it’s always a good time when they are around.



Yes, I’ll admit it. This is a repeat blog post in a way, because I just can’t help blogging their outtakes year after year! These images make me smile even now a month after the session.


I know for some people (eh-hem, usually the dads) the thought of a photo session brings some anxiety and dread, but when a family like this one can relax and enjoy the time together, the photo session becomes an experience and a memory … not just a photo session to make mom happy.

The truth is,
when a family plays together BETWEEN the shots
like this:
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Then you get gorgeous, natural shots like this:

Even when the joking gets serious …
(Redsox, really, future son-in-law??)

bmym_6829c11It’s all good.


Thank You C. Family for another fun session.
You rock it every year.



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